Bride and Maid of Honor scam Bridesmaids out of hundreds of dollars

Bride and Maid of Honor scam Bridesmaids out of hundreds of dollars

As much as a spoilt and demanding bridezilla can be a nightmare for everyone in a wedding party, there are of course worse people in the world. No one wants to feel the wrath of a shouting and stomping bride, but their wedding rage is nothing a few glasses of bubbly and a table full of presents can’t fix. However, attempting to scam your own bridesmaids is on another level and one you’d never dream of happening…

An honorable role

Being asked to be part of someone’s wedding party is a very honorable invite. It’s a special moment for any bridesmaid or groomsman when they’re picked out of hundreds of friends and family to join the happy couple at the altar and stand by their side in the most important moment of their life.

An honorable role

You would think a bride would love and respect her bridesmaids dearly, wouldn’t you? Enough to not scam them out of money anyway…

An angry bridesmaid

An anonymous bridesmaid has taken to Reddit lately to tell us her story of when she was asked to be part of an upcoming wedding party. However, she soon found out the bride was trying to con the bridal party out of money to pay for her wedding dress.

There are different levels of bridezilla-ness. Some brides might just get themselves flustered when something doesn’t go quite to plan, or perhaps they get a little angry when someone isn’t doing as they’re told. But this particular bride has overstepped the mark by a long shot. Who in their right state of mind would want to fraud their own bridesmaids?

A large party

So what exactly happened? Well, the anonymous bridesmaid on Reddit has said that the whole ordeal happened several years ago when she was asked to be part of the bridal party around five months before the big day was due to take place.

She felt privileged even to be asked, so of course, she said yes! She considered her a dear friend, so it was an honor. In total there were seven bridesmaids, including the Maid of Honor too. It was a rather large bridal party, but each of them was someone who the bride considered a loved one.

New dresses

The bridesmaid was really excited to be part of the wedding, and so she was willing to do all that she could do to help. This included any planning or preparations that needed to be done, and also anything that she could contribute to financially. It’s becoming more common practice for the bridesmaid to pay for their own dresses and this is exactly what the bride expected.

Together the party had picked out the perfect dress, but the bride had requested that they each pay for their own because the budget was tight. They all agreed to do so, but this particular Reddit bridesmaid was slightly concerned.

Low bank account

At the time, she was still at college, and so her bank account was on the low side. Nonetheless, she sucked it up and dealt with the fact that she would have to be forking out. It was a very beautiful dress, but the cost of it was a massive $400!

The bridesmaid knew this price tag was rather on the expensive side, but it was the one that the bride wanted so she accepted the price and kept telling herself it was all for a good cause. She was just happy that she was asked to be part of the wedding.

Wedding expenses

Not only was it this particular bridesmaid who was short of money, but most of the other girls were too. Two of them were still in college, and the rest of them were recent graduates.

Everyone knows that post-grad life is rarely a period in your life when you have a full purse, but nevertheless, all of the girls banded together and agreed they would pay for their own dresses. It was an exciting time for them all.

Fixtures and fittings

The Maid of Honor was very reasonable too. She told them that she would put the price of all the dresses on her credit card, and then they could pay her back whenever they had the money. Even better, she told them they could pay back in installments too.

The bridesmaid thought this was very fair, and a bit of a lifesaver too because she didn’t really have $400 upfront. Everything was seeming to work out well.

Exam season

Once the dresses were picked out, each bridesmaid told the shop their size. And then once they were made, they would all go along together for the first fitting. Hopefully, the dresses would be the right size on the first try, but the bride wanted them to fit perfectly so they all looked their best.

However, the date for the fitting was during the Reddit bridesmaid’s finals at college, so she had no choice but to visit the shop on her own once her exams were over. No big deal.