As much as a spoilt and demanding bridezilla can be a nightmare for everyone in a wedding party, there are of course worse people in the world. No one wants to feel the wrath of a shouting and stomping bride, but their wedding rage is nothing a few glasses of bubbly and a table full of presents can’t fix. However, attempting to scam your own bridesmaids is on another level and one you’d never dream of happening…
An honorable role
Being asked to be part of someone’s wedding party is a very honorable invite. It’s a special moment for any bridesmaid or groomsman when they’re picked out of hundreds of friends and family to join the happy couple at the altar and stand by their side in the most important moment of their life.
You would think a bride would love and respect her bridesmaids dearly, wouldn’t you? Enough to not scam them out of money anyway…
An angry bridesmaid
An anonymous bridesmaid has taken to Reddit lately to tell us her story of when she was asked to be part of an upcoming wedding party. However, she soon found out the bride was trying to con the bridal party out of money to pay for her wedding dress.
There are different levels of bridezilla-ness. Some brides might just get themselves flustered when something doesn’t go quite to plan, or perhaps they get a little angry when someone isn’t doing as they’re told. But this particular bride has overstepped the mark by a long shot. Who in their right state of mind would want to fraud their own bridesmaids?
A large party
So what exactly happened? Well, the anonymous bridesmaid on Reddit has said that the whole ordeal happened several years ago when she was asked to be part of the bridal party around five months before the big day was due to take place.
She felt privileged even to be asked, so of course, she said yes! She considered her a dear friend, so it was an honor. In total there were seven bridesmaids, including the Maid of Honor too. It was a rather large bridal party, but each of them was someone who the bride considered a loved one.
The bridesmaid was really excited to be part of the wedding, and so she was willing to do all that she could do to help. This included any planning or preparations that needed to be done, and also anything that she could contribute to financially. It’s becoming more common practice for the bridesmaid to pay for their own dresses and this is exactly what the bride expected.
Together the party had picked out the perfect dress, but the bride had requested that they each pay for their own because the budget was tight. They all agreed to do so, but this particular Reddit bridesmaid was slightly concerned.
Low bank account
At the time, she was still at college, and so her bank account was on the low side. Nonetheless, she sucked it up and dealt with the fact that she would have to be forking out. It was a very beautiful dress, but the cost of it was a massive $400!
The bridesmaid knew this price tag was rather on the expensive side, but it was the one that the bride wanted so she accepted the price and kept telling herself it was all for a good cause. She was just happy that she was asked to be part of the wedding.
Not only was it this particular bridesmaid who was short of money, but most of the other girls were too. Two of them were still in college, and the rest of them were recent graduates.
Everyone knows that post-grad life is rarely a period in your life when you have a full purse, but nevertheless, all of the girls banded together and agreed they would pay for their own dresses. It was an exciting time for them all.
Fixtures and fittings
The Maid of Honor was very reasonable too. She told them that she would put the price of all the dresses on her credit card, and then they could pay her back whenever they had the money. Even better, she told them they could pay back in installments too.
The bridesmaid thought this was very fair, and a bit of a lifesaver too because she didn’t really have $400 upfront. Everything was seeming to work out well.
Once the dresses were picked out, each bridesmaid told the shop their size. And then once they were made, they would all go along together for the first fitting. Hopefully, the dresses would be the right size on the first try, but the bride wanted them to fit perfectly so they all looked their best.
However, the date for the fitting was during the Reddit bridesmaid’s finals at college, so she had no choice but to visit the shop on her own once her exams were over. No big deal.
The bridal shop
Eventually, her finals were over, and she felt stress-free, ready to fully start preparing for the upcoming wedding. The bridesmaid visited the bridal shop a couple of days after her last exam. She went alone and was told by the Maid of Honor that the dress was already paid for.
All she would have to do is try on the dress, discuss any alterations that needed to be made, and then pay her via bank transfer whenever she could.
As soon as she saw the dress in person, she was actually very impressed. There was no doubt it was beautiful, but it should have been for the price of $400, she thought to herself. She tried on the dress in the changing room with the help of the store owner, and thankfully it fit like a glove.
It was the perfect size for her body, and when she looked in the mirror, she felt beautiful. That was the main thing. She was happy.